Tuesday 12 June 2012

An Open Letter to Manny Pacquiao

Dear Manny Pacquiao:

I watched your interview in TV Patrol. When asked what you prayed after losing unexpectedly through that controversial split decision fight, you said: “Thank you, Lord! Not my will but your will be done” without any hesitation and doubt.  Hearing you said that, it convincingly dwarfed any injustices people may have experienced in their lives.  Your acceptance and surrender to the will of God can humble anyone who had been cheated, treated badly, discouraged about their failures and those who suffered unfairness at work, business or in any failed relationship.

Let us face it!  This is boxing and it is your life that is on the line here. You can suffer serious injuries and may not be able to enjoy your life anymore.  It is such a very risky and dangerous sport.  Training is not easy and it takes a lot of discipline and sacrifices being away from your family.  People may not realize the glaring reality that you are not a machine, you can falter on the ring anytime and any mistake, your life is at stake.  Manny, you were robbed! Yes, you were robbed, big time! People cried unfair and broke down to tears because you were cheated not only in front of your wife and two sons but in front of millions of people around the world.  Your mother fainted because you lost unexplainably.  There was no crime in the Philippines during your fight but in Las Vegas they have done the worst crime to you in the history of boxing.  People were booing Bradley when he was announced as the winner.  Fans demanding refund of their money.  Bob Arum was angered and considered this as unacceptable.  But, how could you easily accept the result that is obviously not fair and is blatantly wrong?  How could you say let us respect the decision of the judges even when the whole world knows that you won? 

I salute you Manny Pacquiao!  You practice what you preach.  That was humility in its truest sense to accept defeat even if it was unfair.  You have not only inspired so many people of your athleticism and sportsmanship but despite your stature, you have overlooked the potential damage to your career, finances and your family because of your total surrender to the will of God. You have shown to us that no matter how unfair life can be, you can still smile and remain at peace.  How can you do that?  Teach us! 

Jerry Caingcoy

Sunday 27 May 2012

Judy Mance: A woman of faith and power

Judy Mance is a pastor's wife,  corporate executive,  life coach, teacher and motivational speaker.  She is an epitome of excellence, leadership and service.  She excels in everything that she does may it be as a mother of her two beautiful children, ministry leader or a corporate executive.  She is highly admired by not only her peers but as well as the people outside the corporate world whom she had greatly influenced and touched their lives.

My first encounter with this remarkably outstanding woman was in November 2007 three weeks after we arrived in Calgary, Alberta Canada.  Being new immigrants, she instantly made us feel comfortable.  She was very friendly and accommodating; a trait which up to this day she is very well known of.   I can't think of any woman who has devoted her life to serving God and humanity coupled with steadfast prayer and selfless leadership other than her.  Indeed, she is a woman of faith and power.

A woman of faith and power is a woman whose lifestyle is based on the word of God.  She stands by it and for it in all circumstances.  She is not shaken by any situation but is always firm and strong in her faith, always declaring and believing in the word of God and His faithfulness.

A woman of faith and power is led and filled with the Spirit.  She does not waiver, neither turn to the right or to the left.  She steadfastly focuses and abides in God's plan believing in God's promises and anticipating that in His time God will make all things come to pass. 

A woman of faith and power is Judy Mance.  Thank you for being such a great inspiration and role model to us.  Your Master's Touch family will always be grateful for all the love and care that you have shared with us.  We are humbled and honoured to have met and known you.  We thank the Lord for sending you into our lives.  

Judy Mance, thank you.

Friday 11 May 2012

A Poem For My Mother

A Mother
By: Jerry Caingcoy

Terisita Canonoy Caingcoy, 70 years old

A mother is bigger than the world
A place only mother’s thrive
A road difficult to veer
That only mother’s dare

A path not for the weak
But for the strong and the brave
A role befitting of a hero
Even her own she gives

A Mother is an extraordinary gift
A light that never flickers
Even in the darkest world
She stands

A mother’s heart can carry
Even the weight of the world
Her strength and power
No language can define

An incredible vessel
That brings forth life
A co-creator and nurturer
That only mother’s fare

Happy Mother's Day!

Monday 30 April 2012

A Tribute to the Island of Maripipi by Jerry Caingcoy


I grew up in a remote, 24 kilometers circumferential island named Maripipi, located at the northern tip of the Province of Leyte, Philippines. Not everybody knows about Maripipi Island but it offered me a harmless environment and shielded me from the atrocities of city life.  I grew up without electricity, television, electronic gadgets or  commercial toys to play with. I slept early and woke up early.  In short, there was no distraction. 

I walked to school on slippers, ate fresh seafoods and vegetables every meal, snacked on locally made delicacies from root crops during recess time.   I've done cardiovascular exercise by swimming amidst big waves.  My treadmill was climbing up the mountains to gather firewood.  Fine dining for me was by feasting on crops and  fruits that grow in the wild.  It sounds like I was in the middle of uninhabited place but no, it was a paradise to me.  Reason why it is called the Island of No Return.
My first book was from newspapers or magazines used to wrap local goods bought from the public market. I collected colored magazines and compiled them like a scrap book.  It served as my television or entertainment during leisure time. From it, I dreamt about things and places. I travelled a lot through those scenic pictures in magazines.  Learned hygiene and fashion from pictures of people I only met in my dreams.
My first Science was high tide and low tide and thought at first that the world was flat. I understood the Law of Gravity by climbing a guava or coconut tree. My parents didn't have to pay insurance or worry about liability. I discovered early in life the value of taking care of the environment and how to co-exist and live peacefully. We had a municipal court but no one got sued and a prison cell but no one got jailed. I played with friends together with dogs, chickens and backyard animals. We didn't have an ordinance that banned them from roaming around but we can tell which one is ours. I swam with different species of fish and fascinated by colorful corals and underwater creatures.  We didn’t have fancy hotels or state of the art resort facilities but only the vast blue skies, coconut trees-filled mountains and beach shorelines and the inviting crystal clear water to enjoy.
I didn't wear a guess watch because I learned to tell the time just by looking up at the sun.  It taught me when to sleep and when to wake up. I learned to count by throwing peebles to the ocean and mastered my history by singing Yoyoy Villame’s song about “Philippine History”.  I can’t forget that Lapu-Lapu killed Magellan because the island is abundant of Lapu-lapu fish. My teenage years was very healthy but I learned the hard facts of relationship through Eva Eugenio’s "Tukso" and Imelda Papin’s “Hindi Ako Isang Laruan” because we don't talk about it at home. Those songs reminded me to be strong and vigilant.   
My parents didn't have household bills and mortgage to pay every month. They didn't bring us to fast food to eat or malls to shop but they didn’t have credit card bills to worry. The church was the only place we go on Sundays to escape from our day to day mundane activities or when there was a benefit dance in the public plaza during fiestas or along the road on special occasions. The mountain was my natural backdrop and the vast ocean was my ready audience when I want to sing or speak my heart out, free from the harsh criticisms of this cruel world. I travelled around the island by foot or by a small paddle boat without hefty fares or sky-rocketing gasoline cost to pay. Everything was simple and almost free.
Now, it has changed a lot.  I know I can’t stop progress but the memories will always linger on.  Thank you my beloved island for teaching me early in life to survive.  I developed high survival instinct because of the real life experiences you have given me.  Thank you for providing fresh air, seafoods and vegetables that made me healthy. You prepared me very well to cope with the challenges of life.   Thank you for the values you have taught me.  I learned to love and care for my family, value friendship and respect other people.  You nurtured in me the essence of hardwork and patience to reach my dreams.  Thank you for giving me a safe and stress free life.  All these have made me a champion, a leader, an athlete and an achiever today.  Indeed, you prepared me to be the best person I could be.  Whatever my future will be and wherever it will bring me, I will always carry all these precious lessons with me. I will teach my children and the children of my children what you have taught me.  Until the last breath of my life, I will always be humbled knowing that despite how small an island you are, you have the qualities of a giant.  Despite how backward my life was before, you have trained me to be world-class. It can’t be denied and it will show that I am a Maripipian.  I am proud to be one! 


(Photo courtesy of Rommel Cabrera and Biliran Island website)

Monday 16 January 2012

Sending Relief to Typhoon Sendong Victims


The recent devastation of Typhoon Sendong to Cagayan de Oro and Iligan sent thousands of families homeless and people, adult and children alike dead and hundreds feared to be still missing.  In the face of ravages of Typhoon Sendong, Filipinos both local and abroad have again proven our true spirit of Bayanihan (coming together) especially during times of adversities such as this.  
As tons of relief items and millions of monetary donations continue to pour, whatever contributions we have afforded, small or big are all counted and well appreciated.  Sometimes, a small thing we can do can mean everything in another person’s life. 

The heart of God is close to the poor  and  needy.  When we give with a cheerful heart, we reap the joy of sharing.  He promise to bless those who bless  others with a faith-filled giving. 

I am humbled and grateful to my fellow Filipinos  at the City of Calgary, church mates and friends who have given their good as new clothes donation and monetary contribution to cover the freight expenses in sending four (4) balikbayan boxes to the victims of Typhoon Sendong.  Thank you very much for your kind heart and generosity.  May God continue to prosper you by blessing the works of your hands and crowning all your efforts with success.


Proverbs 19:17




Whoever is generous to the poor lends to the Lord, and he will repay him for his deed.

Friday 13 January 2012

I am back..

It's been a while ago. I don't even remember when was the last time I blogged. All I can recall I started blogging 15 years ago. It was that time when I dauntlessly made a major shift from being an assiduous corporate executive, to an aspiring entrepreneur, to grappling the summons of married life, to dealing with so many life issues and embracing the raucous reality of starting life all over again. It was that time when I decided to fracture myself from the so-called "captivity in Egypt," to "crossing the red sea," to my "wilderness experience" up to my on-going "journey to the promise land".


In October 2007, entering the "promise land, aptly called the land flowing with milk and honey," which is Canada for me at the moment was another adventure in my life, family, career and my continued quest for what God had envisioned me to be. It's been more than four fantastic years of living in Canada, seeing the beauty of God's wonderful creation, experiencing the abundance of this country, learning new things in life that I had never thought I could accomplish and facing new challenges I had never imagined I could overcome. Truly, God will never allow anything to cross our paths that we and Him could not handle.


Once again, please adventure with me as I go to places and meet new faces in 2012. It is my deepest desire to be able to share what God had entrusted and allowed me to experience by inspiring and encouraging people. To be able to make a difference in someone's life by sharing a part of my journey into the heavenly place that God had prepared for me.  I am excited to once again squeeze my creative juices, conquer my deepest thoughts and explore what is beyond.  I am happy to be back.  Please welcome me!